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Anxiety Cannot Exist When…

Enjoy listening to this itty-bitty 6-minute podcast episode: Podcast Summary In this short and sweet solo podcast episode, Sara reflects on her experience with creativity

Carmelita Davidson’s Daily Dozen

A surprise tribute to the compassionate Carmelita Davidson! Since I have been intentional about having conversations with local leaders, one name kept coming up over

Just for today, I choose to FEEL:

 🙋🏼‍♀️💜🙏🏻Just for today, I choose to FEEL… In this solo conversation, I discuss my challenges of feeling overwhelmed in my daily life and I share

The Power of Intention and Positivity

Enjoy this Itty-Bitty Bit: Summary In this episode of MyFESTUS.com Conversation Show, your host, Sara, shares her journey of embracing discomfort and personal growth. She

Midweek Motivator Email

I am excited about the opportunity to SHARE communication via email to CONNECT with you as we all SUPPORT OurFESTUS-area community. SUBSCRIBE to communication for

Atlas Youth Outreach

Updated Prior to the October 18, 2024, Atlas Youth Outreach Hosted a Teen Trunk-or-Treat. Check out what it, and they, are all about: Teenagers are

Feeling At Home

“Home is not a place, it’s a feeling.”  – Cecilia Aaron As someone who has lived in a lot of different cities, in a few

SEARCH & Find!

I LOVE a good organizational system! In fact, to my embarrassment, my parents LOVE to tell people that I asked for a filing cabinet when

Fuel = Energy

This morning, I asked my 10-year-old son,  “What does fuel mean?” He said, “Anything that brings you energy.” I absolutely love this definition! There are

Beyond the Boat

We were a boating family. My childhood weekends, nestled between Memorial Day and Labor Day, were spent on our family’s 1972 Starcraft Holiday boat. With

An Attitude of Abundance

I have always associated the word/concept of abundance with the word/concept of enough. As in enough resources of something tangible such as money, food, shelter,

Mad Libs For Fulfillment

Sometimes we feel stagnant. Despite the busyness that consumes us, or the open space in our schedule, we feel empty. Even if we are always

Judgment-free Free Time

From age 9 to 17, it was extremely fortunate to be able to attend a weeklong summer camp at Pine Lake Camp in central Wisconsin.

Waiting With The Scribble Game

My teenage daughter, Audrey, is a very busy, active girl. She loves being ON THE GO… ALL.THE.TIME.  My 10-year-old son, Dayton, is active, but prefers

Soaking in Drops of Stillness

If you have on the GO…with events, festivities, activities, and gatherings…you may be feeling a little depleted, while feeling nourished and full at the same

Feeling into Freedom

The Fourth of July, as well as the holiday week/weekend, can conquer up an assortment of feelings, emotions, and energy. Perhaps we feel productive, relaxed,

Set Time Aside 

I love clocks. I have a clock in every room. Recently, one clock in my bathroom seemed to be getting louder and louder. I am

Receive All That Is Required

What if we didn’t need to feel any pressure on making “good” or “bad” choices?  What if everything worked out?  What if we received everything

Coffee Maker Clean Out

The other morning I woke up feeling tired, heavy, and achy. As I forced my eyes open, I thanked myself for setting my programmable coffee

Discovering the Beauty in the Ditch 

Within this Memorial Day weekend, many of us are traveling, which prompted a travel reflection… We travel on roads, literally and figuratively. Sometimes the street

The Gospel According to Gail

I honor, respect and love my mother, Gail, every day of the year; however, this Mother’s Day, I wanted pay a special tribute to her.

The Intention Equation

Earlier this week, my son asked what the word “intention” meant. He said he thought it was a feeling that you have.  I concurred, and

Reflective Reflections

Last week I wrote about Strong Outer Shells Covering Soft Inner Souls, as it relates to how we view others, especially when we perceive pain.

Ode to Dogwoods

I wrote and posted this last year on April 13, 2023. Today, exactly one year later, I am still reflecting on the beauty within OurFESTUS

That Was Easy

Do you remember those red buttons that Staples put out a few years ago? They sat on your desk and you would press it, and

Sweet Spring Break Suitcase

While I am staying in Festus, Missouri for this Spring Break, I associate this time of year with packing up to go on a trip.

Luck Vs. Labels 

Happy St. Patrick’s Day! Many of us associate this Irish holiday with an aspect of “luck.” Do you think you are lucky? Do you think

Fuel with Fun

There is always time to fit in fun, and fuel. Something fun that I have been doing with my children, for years, is to incorporate

Nourish to Heal

We are always in a place of healing, in some aspect of our life.  We are always growing, changing, evolving, and transforming in different areas.

Elevated Love

Sending you a sweet, itty-bitty loving wish for you to love yourself a little more today.  Many of us take the holiday of Valentine’s Day

Reinventing Tuesdays 

Do you have a favorite day of the week?  How about a least-favorite day of the week? For the longest time, I loathed Tuesdays. I had

Seeking

“What I am seeking seeks me.”  – Rumi    Within this new year, and within this new month, might we consider tuning into a new

Intentional Attention 

We are now one month into 2024.  If you set intentions to make changes in 2024, how is it going? How are you feeling? Whether

Working To Be Worthy

When we believe we are worthy of goodness in our life, good things happen.  I was recently talking with my 12-year-old daughter, Audrey, about this

Letting Go to Get

Last week I shared reflections on refocusing energy to build the new. I love this, AND, I also hold space for removing and releasing the

Bandwidth to Build

“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old but on building the new.”  Socrates   I love

Generational Curiosity

Ready or not, the holidays are here. Many of us are blessed with an opportunity to be around others to socially engage. Sometimes, we get

Believing

In our culture, Santa is often associated with an excitement for the unknown and belief in what seems impossible. When we are itty-bitty, within the

LEGO By LEGO

Are you a fan of LEGO bricks? As a kid, and even as an adult, I have found myself entertained by skillfully creating my own

Break Out of a Boxed In Escape Room

MTV…the “Music” television network influenced the lives of at least three generations of teenagers and young adults. Most Gen X-ers, Millennials, and Gen Z-er’s are

Facing the Façade

A couple months ago, I was working in our garage with the large overhead door open. I heard a frantic buzzing and tapping sound. I

Uplevel Your Gratitude

Many of us are unwinding after a holiday where we expressed what and who we are grateful for. This is such a fulfilling practice anytime

Itty-Bitty Miracles 

As we look ahead to this upcoming Thanksgiving holiday week and weekend, many of us take time out to express our thankfulness.  This can be

Grateful Gizmo

As I was transitioning my home decor to say goodbye to Halloween, and say hello to my warm and cozy fall decorations last weekend, Gizmo

Be Still in Boredom

“Mommy, I am bored!” How many of us have heard this from our itty-bitty little one before!? Even if you are not a parent, perhaps

Happy Halloween from 1988!

🎃😁🧡Happy Halloween from 1988! This is 4-year old me, loving my carved pumpkin, rocking my “Dog the Bounty Hunter” mullet next to my older brother,

A Toxic Relationship With Time

Time has shown up like a toxic relationship in my life. I have experienced a roller coaster, love/hate relationship with time.  Whether I have wished

Acquiring Space

Acorns aplenty! Our neighborhood squirrels are loving this abundant time of year.  Like any nut/fruit producing tree, the oak tree must release the mature acorns,

The Itty Bitty Pebbles

Imagine you are outside walking with another, or maybe within a group. Have you ever had a teeny, tiny, itty-bitty little rock, pebble, stone, stick,

Festive Fall Feelings

Ever since I was a young girl, I loved seasonal changes of decorative elements within my sweet little room in our sweet little home in

Five Finger Breaths

When my children are overwhelmed, anxious, fearful, or nervous, we take a moment out to practice a quick, easy, and fun calming exercise to relax

The Seventy-Year-Old Sage

Happy 70th birthday to my wise, logical, deep thinking, and problem-solving father.  Seven has always been my dad’s favorite number. Going into his seventh decade

Share, Connect, and Support

There is power in sharing, connecting and supporting each other to enhance so many aspects of our life. 💪🏼 By sharing and uniting to celebrate our itty-bitty

Allowing Absorption

This holiday weekend is often filled with many opportunities to connect with friends and family members through conversations. As you engage in this back and

Interrupt the Impulse

“Practice the Pause”…many say this lately. Have you heard of it? It is taking a moment and a deep breath when we find ourselves amidst

Simplicity of Connection

As it starts, and as it ends, it all comes down to all of us needing/wanting/craving two things out of this life: – to feel

Treasured Time vs. Tasks

We are in the middle of summer, or at least the middle of a traditional three-month summer break for those who are in school during

Collective Community Healing Energy

There is healing power in anything. From observing itty-bitty elements in nature to reading a book to shifting a thought pattern to sharing emotions with

The Ridges of Our Identity

We are all so unique in this world. Every single person and creature is different. We all have ridges and fingerprints within a distinct form

Caregiver Appreciation

I am aware that there are often no “weekend or holiday relief” when you give your time and energy as a caregiver, in any capacity,

Brave Convenience 

I love to talk about “words of the day” with my children. Sometimes I pick a word/theme that we talk about each morning and sometimes

Trusting Turtles

The turtles in Festus, Missouri are out. You have likely observed them basking in the heat and sun, out on the roads and sidewalks. Unaware,

Secret Signs

Do you believe in signs? Something grabs you to steal your attention, even for a split, itty-bitty second. Arbitrary objects or a random thought, followed

Circle Size Comparison

With the start of the sixth calendar month in 2023, we are about halfway through the year. It can be a time when goals are

Hatching

Today is the last day of school for many Festus students. Other local schools have already had their final day and so many are graduating

Precious Peonies

“I equate peonies with love because they’re the first blooms of summer.” – Isaac Mizrahi Peonies are a vibrant flower with a beautifully abundant blossom.

Balance Redefined

We all know how beneficial and beautiful balance is in our life. A new concept has challenged my idea of balance. I have always tried

Tracking the Transformation

At the start of 2022, I started a “five-year journal.” I write one sentence summarizing the happenings of each day. As I record daily in

Grateful for the Glitch

I had a long “To-Do List” this weekend, fully expecting to check off each itty-bitty task. The “task master/controller” part of me likes everything to

 Vincent van Gogh

Vincent van Gogh was a painter born in the Netherlands in 1853. He is famous for his bold paintings that evoke a range of moods

Heed to the Need

“For philosophy doesn’t consist in outward display, but in taking heed to what is needed and being mindful of it.”   – MUSONIUS RUFUS Sometimes

Who Created MyFestus.com?

At the end of 2022, I challenged myself to tap into my creative writing while connecting with the Festus, Missouri community. I have a genuine

What if Nothing is Wrong?

Many of our brains tend to focus on the “what if’s” or the worst-case-scenarios for future outcomes. If this sounds like you, I invite you

Wild Card

If you have ever played the card game, Uno, you know how much power lies within a wild card. The player who lays this colorful

The Festus Public Library

With your personality, do you identify as someone who knows what you want and need? Or, do you find yourself more curious and open to

Smile

“A smile is a curve that sets everything straight.” – Phyllis Diller     Did you know that when we smile…when we intentionally curve the

Wisdom Rings

The powerful recent storm knocked down so many trees in the Festus, MO area. I mourn some of my favorite neighborhood trees, now lonely stumps.

The Puzzling Paradox of a Storm

When a community is hit with a storm, like what the Festus, Missouri area experienced this last weekend, an ironic dynamic between a break and

The Taxes We Pay

Government taxes are not the only taxes we pay. I heard a parable a while back and the story has stayed with me…it goes something

Find the Pony

I recently drove by a lovely local farm outside of Festus, MO and stopped to admire the gentle horses and curious donkey. These beautiful creatures

Space for a Festus Artist

Today is my son’s ninth birthday. He received a Mario Brothers sketchbook and colorful erasable gel pens this morning. The sketchbook is blank, each page

Easter Reimagined 

Holidays hit everyone differently.  If you find yourself longing for people, interactions, environments and/or traditions of the past, I feel you.  It is natural to

Word of the Day: Fleeting

“Sunsets, like childhood, are viewed with wonder not just because they are beautiful but because they are fleeting.” – The Gift, Richard Paul Evans fleet·ing:

Three Components to Self-Compassion

Like any aspect of personal development, there are layers to learning. I have been studying three different aspects to self-compassion: Sweet self-talk. Being gentle with

Authenticity

There is a specific light and airy freedom that comes when we fully surrender to allow our actions to align with who we really want

This, too, Shall Pass

After taking an intentional 14-day spring break from my life’s routines and social media, I reflect on many extreme highs and lows. I summarize the

Time for “My Festus”

As a follow-up to my March 4, 2023 post on exploring and identifying a “Service Fulfillment Formula,” I wanted to shine light on my thoughts

Beauty in Buffer Building

I have come to the realization that I have lived the majority of my adult life in a mental state similar to the intense velocity

Phenological Observations

Treasure hunts are fun at any age. Hidden objects for us to find evoke feelings of hopeful anticipation and positive exhilaration within our souls. One

Word of the Day: Pivot

This morning, as I was drinking my coffee and looking out my kitchen window, I saw the most beautiful, pastel pink streaks in the sky.

Nature

“Some old-fashioned things like fresh air and sunshine are hard to beat.” – LAURA INGALLS WILDER Wishing you some itty-bitty moments outside to replenish your

Balance

“A happy life is not built upon the goal of perfection, but on balance.” @aquamaryna This quote resonates with me as I focus more on

New

There is an energy surge most of us associate with the word “new.” Today welcomes many new unfoldings:  a new day a new week  a

Help 

Perhaps it is my stubborn German heritage or maybe I have a subconscious inferiority complex, but I have recognized a pattern of resisting help. It

WHY?

Being a transplant resident in Festus, Missouri, many ask WHY I am promoting living and loving life in the Festus area? Having lived in many